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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP this is so hard.... but you need to think about what’s the best for your daughter. A good friend of mine is in exactly the same position except her daughter is younger. She took the high road and now thinks her ex’s gf is better for her child than her ex DH. Both women did something horrible, but 99% of the fault is with the husbands that strayed. She is not your rival in your DD’s life and unless you want your DD to not have a father anymore, you should learn to accept the gf for your daughter’s sake[/quote]

I beg you OP listen to this advice and the advice of everyone who is urging you to take the high road. These are the people who have the best interest of your daughter in mind. These are the people who want to see you both thriving, and eventually, be able to move past the hurt and into healing.  These are the people who truly want to help minimize the impact on your daughter not exacerbate her pain by playing manipulative games.

BTDT as the daughter in the situation and all I can say is I'm very glad my mom didn't choose to make my life worse because she was hurt.

I also know people with mothers who did what OP plans to do, and what those without her best interest at heart are encouraging her to do, and as adults, they have zero or very strained relationships with the parent or taken the side of  dad because they grew tired of all of moms tricks.[/quote]

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