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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Back in my 30’s I had three AP’s over an 8 year period. We were raising 2 DC’s, parenting well, building careers and having regular, if uninspired, sex. 
I’m the kind of guy that doesn’t seek and rarely has had sex for the sake of having sex. I fell in love with all 3 AP’s and the affairs ended when the relationships reached the point where I either had to leave DW or end the relationships. I ended them and it was painful. Divorced a few years later, remarried and been monogamous since. 
In retrospect, I think the relationship with DW was missing something which is why I was open to an AP.  [/quote]

In it now, and trying to break it off.  I generally agree, affairs are a result of something wrong in the relationship, could be lack of sex or something else.  Not trying to justifying it, but it's a symptom, not a cause.[/quote]

Not really.  Affairs are because there’s something missing in you, not someone else.  [/quote]

Well said. That's it entirely.

Normal people cope with life's problems. Others with deep flaws drink, take drugs, have food addiction, engage in promiscuous behavior, and of course lying and cheating.

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