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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have long been struck by the fact that serial cheaters I have had as clients (mostly men) are usually married to beautiful women. Often these women are also accomplished and very bright. These addicts are not looking for something better and in fact often cheat with someone less attractive and less desirable than their spouse. As one addict put it: “I married a 10 and I cheated with 2s”.[/quote]

Yes!  [/quote]

A wife’s attractiveness is completely unrelated to cheating.
The [b]only[/b] variable that matters is the sexual fulfillment within the marriage.
Simple formula that is 99% accurate: men who are sexually fulfilled don’t cheat. Men who are not sexually fulfilled get that elsewhere.[/quote]

You've heard from multiple women who were having regular sex with their husband when adultery came to light.

There is no simple formula in sexuality.  Some men require more than monogamous sex with the same woman to be sexually fulfilled.  I don't take this personally.   If my husband wants novelty or variety or particular acts to be fulfilled, I can't provide that. No single woman can.  [/quote]

For every one of those women, there are a hundred others where the marriage had very infrequent sex which is the reason for husband cheating. There absolutely is a very specific formula to husbands who cheat. I agree the formula is not simple when it comes to wayward wives, but men really ARE simple creatures and ESPECIALLY when it comes to sex.[/quote]

That formula exists only in your imagination,and it's kind of amusing to see you confidently blurt out numbers to prove it.  It's almost like you didn't just pull it out of your ass.[/quote]

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