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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I suspect my spouse has cheated but I can't prove it. I know he is lying about money. He password protects everything. He has lied to my face. But I can't prove it and he continues to gaslight me. I would love to be able to confront him with hard evidence.  I would love the FBI agent to share some tips. I know I am not alone.[/quote]

Ok FBI agent here. I’ll give all you goofballs some of my secrets eventho I should be charging you.  :roll: I bought about 6 mini digital voice activated recorders. I used Velcro to attach them to places I thought covert convos would happen. Inside car for sure,  under his/hers office desk, and places in your house where they might carry on conversations. Under your bed if he’s a real slime ball and he has someone over while you’re away.. These things are amazing and I caught those rat bastards every time!  But now with the  loss of verbal Communications that’s a little harder.  Renting a gps is what I did too. Renting is so much easier because they come already set up and all you have to do is put your login they give you and a password on the computer and attach that magnetic sucker under their car.  Oh boy was that fun watching their every  move even while I would be talking to them.  :D  You really don’t need to rent them long if you suspect anything trust me. Mine was going to massage parlors during work hours. Ugh.     You’re welcome! btw if you’re not ready for the truth don’t do it, keep your head in the sand. [/quote]

It's so easy now. Even back in the day it was simple to catch a cheater. Mine had a pager, but was really secretive. I went and ordered a Motorola pager just like his,  put a scratch in the corner like his, then they were identical. Switched the pagers out and I kept his for 3 days. When his got a page I would immediately call my pager and put the number through. Sure enough he was getting a partial number or code that was suspicious. Immediately me and a friend followed him from work in her car, sure enough he was cheating on me.

I taught a lot of women that one back in the day, LOL.  Today I've given a few friends a website with a good gps with a magnet where you just log in and can see in real time where the vehicle is. One husband was parking his car in a shopping center over a hour. My friend went and waited and sure enough the W was picking him up. It's always a mistake to put your head in the sand whether it's finance related, or partner related. Get to the bottom of it and solve the problem.[/quote]

FBI agent here. I like you!  I once sprinkled a very light dusting of baby powder on the floor next to the bed when I went out of town.  When I came back I got a flashlight got on my hands and knees and at a certain angle you can see all the foot impressions and noticed some very small feet.  I also outlined a picture of us on his black dresser with a blk sharpie to see if it was moved and yep it was.  Guess he didn’t want me staring at him while he was with his skanky girl   :twisted:
 Like I said the gps rental is the easiest because they ship it to you ready to go. Just crawl under their vehicle and bam!  I’ve also tried giving my suspicious girlfriends help but I have found none of them really want to know!. They always tell me no thanks when I’ve offered to lend them my gadgets.  So basically most women want to keep their heads in the sand and then come on here and say they were blindsided.  :roll: [/quote]

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