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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What happens when you call her and invite her to lunch? [/quote]

Since she works odd hours it's usually on the weekends and I'll call/text her a couple days before for like a Saturday and say DH and I would like to get lunch with you and she will either ignore it or just call DH later to finalize plans but I imagine it would kill her to actually text me herself. I invited her out to lunch when DH was away one weekend for work and she just said she is going out with her daughter didn't even think to invite me. Not saying she has to everytime she goes out with her daughter obviously but since i reached out it would have been nice knowing I was sitting home alone.[/quote]

Why on EARTH would you expect to be invited out to lunch with your MIL and SIL really ever?!?  Why didn’t you plan something with your friends when your DH was out of town?  Is it because you have no friends?[/quote]

I have friends but they were busy that weekend but knowing I was by myself why wouldn't mil want to include me with the girls? Why is it such a foreign concept to hang out with a mil and SIL? I know plenty of women who get invited to girls day with their MIL and SILs.[/quote]

ALL of your friends were busy that weekend?  Why did you sit at home alone?  You can’t go do something yourself?

Have you ever invited your MIL and SIL to a girls day?  Why is the onus on them?

And most importantly, do you think you have no role to play in this dynamic?  You seem to play the victim a lot. [/quote]

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