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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some men really are not sleeping with their wives. There are truly sexless marriages. People will put up with a lot of suffering for their kids. I know. I have been married a decade. We have had 8 years total of complete sex drought. We are divorcing for other reasons, but the sexlessness did not help. I am a woman. I know of women who punish their husband by withholding sex...they are not sleeping with their wives....[b]if a man is normal, he will cheat or divorce. [/b]Many prefer cheating to divorce due to kids. My situation is that the marriage was always wrong and low T. But do not overlook that some men really do not have sex with their wives. It is rare but if happens. [/quote]

Agree: any normal man in a sexless marriage will definitely cheat or divorce. Consider that 20% of marriages are estimated to be sexless (and, obviously, NOT divorced) and this accounts for lots of cheating husbands. In fact, compare this with the estimates of married men who cheat: also about 20%. Clearly this is THE SAME 20% group of men.  So it’s NOT rare at all for a cheating man to also be in a sexless marriage. Look at the numbers. Very few men who aren’t in sexless marriages are cheaters.[/quote]

Please define sexless[/quote]

The official definition is fewer than 10 times a year. I would define it as a year or more without sex.[/quote]

There is an official definition? Who determines that: divorce courts, an association of gynecologists?

I know people have infrequent sex who are in very happy relationships while others are having regular sex and miserable.
DH and I average 1-2x a week and are happy, but the happiness isn’t caused by sex. I think the sex is caused by happiness. [/quote]

That is the definition of psychologists. Infrequent sex is not sexless. [/quote]

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