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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can see difference when you invite 10 out of 20 kids is OK, but when you invite 18 out of 20, than you're excluding two people on purpose.[/quote]

Correct.  Or if it's always been a group of 8, and then you start only including 6 of the 8.[/quote]

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Maybe. Sometimes the two of 8 begin changing. Could be that the left out kid has been lying, stealing, cheating, being mean, bullying, sneaking around, etc - completely changing. [/quote]

Meh. Sounds like you’re projecting. In a situation like that it’s most often a queen bee trying to dictate what goes on in a group of friends and everyone else being too afraid to make a stink.[/quote]

And sometimes a parent might assume it's a mean queen bee situation, and not realize their OWN kid is the mean one and that's why the others are drifting away.

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Or just that the girls aren’t friends anymore. Some moms want their daughters to be friends with the girls of their mom friends and this is not healthy for the girls because it puts a lot of pressure on them because they want to please their parents. By seventh grade parents need to let girls decide their own activities and create their own groups because these groups and friendships change in middle school. [/quote]

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