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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ [b]I’m a proponent of working it out.[/b]  Looking back, there really is a payoff in staying in marriage.  Happiness is a perspective that can be cultivated, especially during those middle year’s when life is challenging.  [/quote]

You say to "work it out"...... Wife doesn't want sex, husband does. Explain to us (exactly) what does "work it out" look like here?[/quote]

[b]Be honest. 
Use your words like a big boy. 
"I want to open the marriage or get a divorce."[/b]

And honestly, you sound like a big, whiney, angry toddler who feels he is entitled to sex. 
Have you tried being truly loving? 
You are probably very selfish in bed from the way you come across. I don't want to have sex with you either. You are probably critical and nit-picky towards your DW. 
My DH is kind and thoughtful and understanding. We have great communication and trust. He's totally getting some tonight. [/quote]

THIS.

Anything else makes you a total coward. Ask for what you want (sex outside the marriage/open marriage) or end it. Be a damn grownup. 
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