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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I think it’s a red flag he’s already introduced you to his kids and had you spend that much time with them.

I agree this is the main part that concerns me.[/quote]

This is not a divorced dad who has another parent taking the kids 50% of the time. He is a widower, 3 kids, they are likely the center of his life, and anytime he spends with a gf is going to be including them. [/quote]

Disagree. He should be even more cautious about involving his kids. I just don't see the great romance you all do.. I'm seeing a lot of red flags[/quote]
Try reading the updates and the whole thread. OP sounds very sensible and eyes-wide-open.
OP— so glad it’s going well![/quote]
. I've been following the thread from the beginning and have come to a different conclusion than you so check your snotty attitude. Op has been anything but cautious. In real life not the romcom movies you love this situation has a lot of red flags mostly for the kids.[/quote]

Dear Patty Party Pooper,

Sorry to break the news to you but just because you lead a miserable life doesn't mean others can't be happy.[/quote]

You're probably the kind of person who hides affairs for their friends. Because life is complicated.  Guess what babe life isn't a Hallmark movie. You and others are encouraging op to ignore potential red flags. [/quote]

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