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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Also... I think the shrink thing freaked you out for some reason. A lot of people go to therapy. So do I. No fault in that. All my comment on it was meant to imply was that some of the reasons I went had to do with our relationship being in crisis, while others did not. I still don't understand why you found issue with that.[/quote]

I have no issue with anybody seeking help for their issues.

I do have issue with people blaming their issues on others.

When you specify that [b]some [/b]of your issues are "not related" it means that normally you blame your issues on others.

Dude, [b]ALL [/b]of your issues are "not related", when you are in therapy you are working on YOUR issue, they are maybe related to your anger issues, or you inability to communicate, or your need to leave your kids with your wife and "get me time" (avoidance).... but my issue is that you don't understand that your issue are YOUR issues. [/quote]

OP here... in context... I wrote the issues are not related to my wife, or our relationship problems. NOT THAT THEY ARE NOT RELATED TO ME. You have it backwards. Or I've not been clear. Anyway, your attempt in attach a psychological diagnosis to my actions is heart warming. You must be an amazing psychologist to be able to do that on an online forum like this one. [/quote]

No you have it backwards. All your issues are related to YOU. You relationship issues are RELATED to YOU. Leave this relationship and you will have all the same issues, because your issues don't go away, they follow you. These are issues YOU created, you need to fix you, not your relationship.

Nobody has to be a psychologist to know you have to fix you, not your wife or your relationship. [/quote]

OP here. Why bother... continue on your own...
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