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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here- Man you guys are fast. And again, I appreciate the feedback.

I know that I am biased, but my wife is absolutely unreasonable in her deep dislike for my parents. The background on that is nothing special or salacious. My dad has been great and friendly with her, and until not too long ago they had a pretty solid relationship. The issues began between her and my mother. My wife feels my mom has never been kind or friendly or welcoming to her. She just isn’t a very outgoing and friendly person. I think of it more as a personality clash. So my wife has never been fond of my mother (and perhaps my mother has never been fond of wife either?) [b]The real problems began when my wife was pregnant with our first and my mom made some critical comments about what my wife.(what she was eating, being lazy, etc) The biggest offender was a comment about how wife drank alcohol before finding out she was pregnant and that she might have caused some serious deformities or cognitive problems for our baby.. Long story short my mother refused to apologize, denied saying anything offensive and it has snowballed from there. My wife says my mom makes passive aggressive comments to her every time she sees her, and now my dad has started getting involved. The last time we saw them my dad raised his voice at my wife and called her cruel and insensitive.[/b] There have been a number of other very small things crop up but they aren’t worth mentioning for the purposes of this thread.  All of this to me, is just my wife being way over sensitive and because she has never liked my mother, she won’t cut her any slack or give her a break. My parents are good people who love their grandchildren. They are not abusive or dangerous.

[b]I guess I should also add that part of why this situation has become what it is (according to my wife) is because I initially defended my mom over her when the original criticisms were made and continually supported and advocated for my mom and parents throughout her first pregnancy and after.[/b]  I would argue that I was advocating for myself and my own perspective. Wife and I probably need some marriage counseling to fully move past this.[/quote]

WHAAAT. OP, on behalf of women everywhere, f*ck you. I can't believe your wife is still with you. Your mom is an asshole, and the fact that rather than standing up for your wife and telling your mom off when she made those INCREDIBLY rude and inappropriate comments you sided with your mom(!) and "continued to support and advocate for your mom throughout your wife's first pregnancy and after"....WHAT. Your mom was not the one who needed your advocacy and support during the pregnancy...that would be your WIFE, the one who was actually going through the pregnancy. Seriously I am in actual disbelief. What in the actual hell is wrong with you?

And ftr, you started this off saying it was just some small issues. Laughable. You could not be farther from wrong. Seriously I am having a hard time believing this is real. [/quote]

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