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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow. There is lots of sexism in this thread, but it sure isn't anti woman. OP earned 100% of the money while his wife didn't work for 7 years and SHE was the one supporting HIM? Just wow. My mind is blown. Now he is still bringing in major bank (80% of the household finances) and does most of the household stuff and child care, and he is being made to feel guilty for expecting more from his wife, including ... more sex? Sounds like a pretty reasonable request since he is taking care of the house, kids and finances nearly single handedly. Holy cow, this has gone off the rails here. If it was the wife doing absolutely everything in the family, DCUM would explode with women telling her to DTMFA.

OP, I haven't read the whole 15 pages, but has it already been covered about whether your wife is having an affair? I'd consider the possibility.[/quote]

Finances are always minimized in these discussions. The money is just kind of there. That way we can focus on whether the housework and child care is being split fairly rather than stepping back and looking at how the overall effort required to maintain a family is being split.

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