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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe I have a higher libido than I thought. I can't imagine being ok with not having an orgasm even though my partner did and thinking that is still satisfying, good sex. lol[/quote]

This. I’m a woman with a high libido (married 14 years, two kids). I think the advice about sex still being “nice” even without the DW getting an orgasm is misguided. That might be okay for a woman who does not truly love sex, but it’s not okay for many of us.

Also, I saw a comment up thread about it being weird for a woman to regularly turn down oral. Receiving oral has never been all that enjoyable for me, and I have always orgasmed through PIV. So, yes, some of us don’t have hangups, but simply don’t like it. (I’m submissive in bed and so watching a man do something so submissive is frankly a turnoff.)[/quote]

I am that woman. You could call either of our advice misguided. If OP's wife is like me, its good advice, if he's like you than it is bad advice. But it is silly to think that there are not women for whom my advice is the right advice. Another one just posted upthread.

OP's wife initiated sex and then when he was done said she was done too. I think he should trust his wife who is trying to work through this. Or he could believe that his wife is secretly lying to him about her struggle with low libido and is secretly resentful of his not giving her enough orgasms throughout the year. That seems WAY more convoluted IMO.

And I truly love sex. Just because I don't view it exactly like you do doesn't mean I don't love it. [/quote]

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