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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am that poster, and that was not my message, but ladies please do not wish us to be mind readers.  You have voices and can express yourselves with them and in ways that are clear and express your intent.  [/quote]

How about asking her directly what would put her in the mood? How about asking yourself what you could do differently? Good conversation, flowers, date nights, shaving that stubble before kissing, showering beforehand if you’re one of those guys who shakes it at the urinal, technique tips? Not every woman wants these things, but many do.

It’s also possible there are bigger problems on the relationship. If you’re dismissive or rude to her, she’s not going to be in the mood. If you both work full time but you don’t get home until 9 and she has to feed and bathe the kids, yep, she’ll be exhausted. Ask her directly about these things, too.

And then make the changes. Don’t just decide that you can’t leave work before 9 and so you’re entitled to an AP while your wife deals with the kids.

The idea that you have no role to play in resolving this is wrong.[/quote]

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