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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What if you get it done and you still feel unattractive? I'd worry that it's like home improvement: the new area looks great but it makes you see flaws in the surrounding area.[/quote]

I got a lift and an implant. This was 5 years ago. I still feel so good naked.  The surgery prompted me to start to really up my exercise and tighten my diet. After surgery I now have double the amount of sex with my DH than I did prior.  My DH loved my body before and after, now I love my body just ad much and am not afraid to be naked and sexual in front of DH because I'm happy with the way I looked. So for me surgery had such a positive impact on my overall health. Also it was great going from a 10 to a 6 in m y 40s and being motivated to look better all around.

OP needs to ignore the nasty troll and get it done. She will not regret it and it will not be the first step towards surgery addiction. That's just a ludicrous assumption.[/quote]

I posted this and I think it's legit. It's not that I think a boob lift is the gateway to surgery addiction. It's that this is at root a self-esteem issue. She's not saying, I'm so annoyed by my breasts, I'd like to fix themand have them as they were before. She's saying she doesn't want or enjoy intimacy because she can't believe her DH still finds her attractive (despite him saying he does).

It doesn't sound like she likes herself, and surgery won't fix that.

FWIW, I think getting exercise and having your kids get older often lead to more sex and happier intimacy, with or without surgery.[/quote]

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