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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] He said he likes your boobs! [/quote]

He didn't exactly say that.  He said he's still attracted to me overall and the sagging doesn't particularly bother him.  [b]I am fairly sure that his position is that he liked them better the way they used to be, but the current situation isn't a deal-breaker in terms of his attraction to me.[/b]

I definitely have zero interest in a divorce or pleasing some other person besides DH and myself.[/quote]

Honestly, OP, it sounds more like you need some therapy to help with your self-image than a breast lift.  Can you at least try that first?  Because what you wrote is 100% about YOUR self image, not what your DH thinks.[/quote]

Why are people trying to make OP feel even worse about herself. She wants to feel attractive and she is lucky to be able to do that with a quick fix since her breasts seem to be the only thing she wants to change. [/quote]

Because when you need perky breasts at 44 to fill attractive, you have issues. Period. Go see a therapist OP

It doesn't matter that many of you do it. Many of you have issues. [/quote]

Do you have issues if you color your hair?  If you wear a bra that provides some lift?  If you spend a lot on a haircut?  If you get pedicures?  Why do you get to decide on what beauty treatments mean you have issues?  You seem awfully judgemental.  People value different things.  Why are you a bad person if you want decent boobs?  It’s not that OP desires 20 year old boobs but that she wants to improve her own.  The only way to do this is through breast implants / lift.

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World of difference between perky 20 year old boobs and saggy, deflated breasts. Anyone trying to shame OP for considering improving the appearance of her saggy, deflated breasts has issues.
It's not a requirement, no one has to do it if they don't want to. It's fine to be enthusiastic and in love with your own saggy, deflated breasts. But if OP wants to seek improvement there really is no reason why she shouldn't.[/quote]

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