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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG.

Most of you guys have the BEST spouses in the world.  Seriously.  He left you at a hospital for a couple hours to sleep?  What?  He went to a football game on your birthday so celebrated it a different day.

You guys are crazy!

I wouldn't even know where to start with DH -- he's great and confident and fun and loving and calm and the MOST selfish man on Earth.

For instance, when I went into labor, he went into work... And we homebirth!  The midwife told him that he should stay but he ignored her.  I begged him between contractions to stay, but he ignored me!  He came home after work and didn't miss the birth (I wish he had!).  He then went to work the next day because he didn't want to use his vacation or sick days and didn't get paid paternity.  And we HOME birth so I literally had no one there.

Then, baby 2, he decides he's planning a trip to NYC with friends the weekend AFTER my due date.  I was livid.  The midwife said not to, I begged him not to -- he ignored us.  Of course, I don't go into labor until he got home so he didn't miss the birth again (I wish he had!).  Again, be didn't take any leave.

Needless to say we didn't have any more children.

But that's just him.  He wanted to invite his 20 ex-girlfriends to the wedding so told me they were friends and said that "we should after not to invite exes' because he didn't want my TWO be ex-boyfriends there. I found out after (from him mom, actually) who they were.  He then said that it was different because they were just dating and not girlfriends.

He is a VERY good dad, surprisingly, and a stable husband, surprisingly, but he definitely has some form of learning disability.  I'm not sure.  I think it's autism tho and I kind of recognize the lack of ability to have logic and emotions in the same way as others since both our boys are autistic.  [/quote]

Why are you accepting this kind of treatment?  Allowing men to treat women like this hurts all of us.  Please don’t have anymore children with someone who can’t even be bothered with the birth of his child.  Please see a therapist to determine why you don’t demand more

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