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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not the talking up that matters. It's that OP took her DD's initial excitement about the Santa pancakes and made it into some proof that her daughter loves and respects her. It would be no different if she had instead done this with the presents (e.g. The 4 yo not responding enthusiastically to presents she had talked up). It's not about pancakes or presents or being hungry or materialism. It's that OP set up huge personal expectations for what these pancakes meant that nobody else knew about and when they treated the pancakes as food (i.e. Largely unimportant and optional) and not whatever token of appreciation or respect OP had turned them into, she flipped out, punished the DD and then the poor little 4 yo had to make amends to OP. It's mindfuckery and people like OP excel at it. They can do this shit all day with everything from a pair of socks to money for your wedding. [/quote] OH MY GOD OR IT’S JUST F***ING PANCAKES AND OP WAS HUNGRY AND HER BRAT DAUGHTER COULD WAIT 15 MORE MINUTES TO OPEN HER CHEAP PLASTIC CHINA CRAP[/quote]
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