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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]haha I feel the same way OP.

When he gets back, it's mama's turn to relax![/quote]

You don't like sex?[/quote]

PP here. No I don't like sex when I'm exhausted and on edge (which is what it's like for me to be alone with 4 kids for several days and nights and he knows that). I need to be in the mood for sex., which means relaxed. Why should I put out if I am too tired?[/quote]

Because if both partners required perfect rest and mood, there would be no sex ever.[b] Marriage requires give and take. [/b]With you it seems to be he does all the giving and you do all the taking. Narcissism is never an attractive trait. Try thinking about more than yourself. With women, arousal is much more mental. Your attitude does not lend itself to be open to sex very often. In many cases, this will lead to stress in other areas of your marriage.[/quote]

Why is it always that "marriage requires give and take" is used in the context of she needs to do what he wants?

How about "marriage requires give and take" aka go jerk off in the bathroom and leave your poor wife alone? [/quote]

Because that's not marriage, that's a roommate.

How is it all these women are too exhausted for sex but have time to monitor and comment on every thread in here with their man-hating theme? Maybe kill your addiction to this joint and watch your kids or take a nap.[/quote]

Actually, marriages change over time.  It is not carte-blanche sexual access whenever you get a boner, or every few days, weeks, months, etc.  Your wife is not a prostitute

If you wanted that, you should have bought a real doll.  Get a grip. [/quote]

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