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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What's an OK quality of life? The other woman lives in an apartment and you live in a 5,000 sqft house; is this an OK life? The OW drives a Honda and you drive a Mercedes, is this an OK quality of life?  A normal employed mother can almost always provide an "ok" quality of life for the other child assuming no abuse, just a lower SES.

Yes, the cheated spouse feelings come before the child, for the simple reason that said spouse needs to cooperate if the child comes to live with them.  Without her enthusiastic consent, he or she does not.

What love do you have for a person if you cannot love their innocent child? [b]Why don't you ask your husband if he can love a child you'd conceive in your affair with another man[/b]. If he says no, blame him for using marriage as a convenience. [/quote]

I would say there is no way a child of mine is growing up in Thailand while I live in the U.S. (I will never cheat either so there is that). I do not know enough about Thailand but that would definitely not qualify as an "ok" way of life compared to mine.

If my husband cheated, and I chose to stay with him, there is no way his child will grow up in Thailand just because I am hurt. Of course, we would need permission from the child's mother to bring her over.

I am and will always be all in or all out in my marriage. Choosing to love my husband will mean choosing to love his child no matter how she came to be. If I can forgive him, I can love her.

My husband said yes, and I am certain he will. The question is will he still love me? That is the question he cannot answer. But he absolutely agrees, that if he takes me back, the child comes with the package. I admit that it makes the package more complicated, but you cannot pick one and not the other.

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