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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's the male perspective you are looking for, OP. I'm going to get dragged for saying this, but I hear (understand) you.

To answer your question: Yes, he has likely thought about the two of you being together again. Those thoughts have intrigued him enough to strategically set up this week's stay at your place.

He knew you'd say yes to crashing at your place. He has picked up that you think he's hot. When you said yes to him staying, in his mind, you confirmed what he suspected. Unfortunately, his being married can't compete with nature. It's cliche, but there's something to the adage, "what's love got to do with it."

Here's how this will likely play out:

He's betting that you will make the first move--especially since you're ok with him staying with you.

If you don't make the first move, he will, eventually at some point during the week. And when he does, it will take a lot of will power not to give in (on both your parts).

I appreciate your honesty and candor. And I totally understand why you are excited. Life gets boring for all of us--married, or not. Hell, I got excited just imagining how that week could play out!

My advice. Try to resist the temptation and don't do it. One way that could help is to "take care of yourself" [b]a lot[/b] before he gets there.

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Hey, thanks so much for writing this!

I can’t promise I’ll take your advice but I am grateful for what you wrote. 
Also, I hope you are a little excited to know that yes there are women like me, we exist. I promise I am not “sad and lonely” and I am not desperate for a “relationship”.
I am just too much like a man for my own good, I’d say. And I want what I want, that or nothing. 
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