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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Regarding the happy marriage comment. If no person is perfect, and no marriage is perfect, then every marriage has problems. Does that mean that every person on earth is justified in having an affair because their marriage definitely has problems? No? So that means there has to be some bar for how bad the problems need to be to make it ok for you to fall into bed with someone else. And who sets where that bar is? Oh right you do. Gotcha.

I feel bad for your spouse that you're still married and you're doing all of these mental gymnastics to take away any of the blame from yourself. That your spouse has to take that on in addition to everything you've put him/her through just to keep their marriage together is so, so sad.[/quote]

Thank you, yes, my spouse does deserve your sympathy. I'll accept your generosity.

But I think you are are willfully misunderstanding and trying to inflict your own bitterness and anger on others. I haven't justified having an affair, nor do I release myself of blame. I made decisions. But that is between myself and my spouse.

I think you need a hug and some additional loving. [/quote]

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