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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  So now that his move out date is imminent, he's been saying things like "You know I haven't completely given up on us.  I still hope we can work things out and this separation will provide clarity."  
What do I do with that?  I mean, my first choice would be to save my marriage, but I don't want to prolong this insanity.  He'd have to do so many things, and I'm not sure he has it in him.  [/quote]

I want to say that my spouse let me stay after an affair. And it was touch and go for a while there. If we'd separated, I probably wouldn't have come back. But now I can say things are MUCH better, we are happy, and we've worked through a lot of the problems we had (yes, there [u]were[/u] pre-affair problems. It WASN'T that golden goose you keep looking for of a happy marriage but still one partner has an affair. I'm not saying we were miserable all the time, but we had some serious problems) (and I'll add, I had some issues that I hadn't dealt with, my own personal rug-sweeping, and that contributed to the marriage problems).

But you have to really want to work on your marriage, because it will not be easy, comfortable, or even loving a lot of the time. [/quote]

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