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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. The mother is remarried and new baby (so new sibling for daughter). 
He says the daughter knows he will always be here for her, that he has made that clear. That he would drop everything for her if needed/wanted. He says he doesn't want to disrupt their life and 'force' a relationship. [/quote]

His 11 year old daughter does not believe that  at all.

How could she?  He's proven the exact opposite. He should do her a favor and sign over his rights so her stepdad( her actual father) can adopt her.

He's saying that for your benefit because he sees you for the fool that you are. No one is buying that you are torn over this. You are 29 and have convinced yourself you need to be married by 30 so you can start having kids  and are clearly willing to make sure that happens and  it doesn't matter who with. You will live to regret this if you go down this road.  You will be asking yourself what I was thinking only then you'll have a kid or two.

You can and should do better OP, but you won't and that is sad.[/quote]

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