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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I always wanted to have the same last name as my children but it feels so archaic and anti feminist to take his name. We both have long last names so hyphenating would be tedious- 6 syllables. He doesn't care either way. My career wouldn't be affected. How did you decide? Has anyone regretted it either way?[/quote] How is it more feminist to use your father's name than your husband's?[/quote] Well, your husband's father's name, really. Or is it only men who own their names, and women just borrow them? My last name is MY last name. It is the same last name as my dad, but it's my name, just as much as it is his. [/quote]
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