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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] [/quote] Um, maybe she had day care or a nanny of any ethnicity, or help from grandparents -- like all of us working moms? Crawl back under your rock, Trump supporter. You dishonor America. [/quote] Close, except I'm South Asian, liberal, whose parents grew up in a 3rd world village. I had a SAHM, and she babysat for many working moms of color for extra cash. (So my mom cleaned other kid's poop.) My point is that OP looks down on people who clean babies' poop, but won't tell us who cared for her own babies. I know her type - and find them condescending and arrogant. I mentioned the possible nationalities of her nanny (if she had one) because UMC South Asians in this area typically have Southeast Asian nannies.[/quote] OP here. Most South Asian families that I know where the wife is a doctor, lawyer or a reporter, their mothers live with them and care for the baby. [b]The mothers are super proud of their daughters and help out by making food and taking care of the child. [/b]They don't outsource this unless hiring a weekly house keeper. [/quote] But, but, then their moms have no dignity and are not contributing to society![/quote]
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