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Reply to "Need advice - I have zero attraction to DH and avoid sex"
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[quote=Anonymous]I haven't read 14 pages of replies, but here is my take: 1) you need to be blunt with DH - "this turns me off" - he isn't good at reading cues. He probably also thinks being aggressive = what it takes to get you to respond. There are lots of married men sex books that tell men the problem is not being aggressive enough. He may be reading those. 2) You need to tell him when you would be approachable for sex on a decent frequency. For example, Saturday nights after a movie, or Sunday mornings. Then, when he follows through, be an active participant, i.e. creating a positive feedback loop. 3) If he needs help in the skills department, tell him what you want, be gentle but direct and what doesn't work. Good luck. It sounds like your marriage is pretty deep in the weeds.[/quote]
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