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[quote=Anonymous][quote]...[b]Also, just wanted to clarify that SIL and BIL never shared any details of their infertility struggles with us[/b]. We learned what they were going through only through DH's mother. So we never really felt comfortable bringing anything up with them about their infertility procedures, treatments, etc. as MIL wasn't even supposed to share those things with us (but [b]she is a blabbermouth[/b]). [b]They didn't even share that much of what they went through with her, they wanted to keep it to themselves, I guess. Similarly, we have not shared anything with them (or MIL) about our secondary infertility issues. They don't even know that we have infertility, or [/b]that we've been TTC for a year now with no pregnancy. They also don't know that we got pregnant with our daughter after just one month of trying (when we announced our pregnancy to the family they asked specifically about "how long" it took, but [b]we just brushed that off and did not tell them[/b], out of respect for what they were going through. [/quote]

The more OP says about this relationship, the more I think they barely know each other and share very little. But the OP is quick with her judgments. I do not think I would share something so emotionally upsetting as  IF struggles with her. She is getting all of her info from MIL -- so she really has no idea what they are actually going through. 
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