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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's just this kind of in-thread bickering that goes back to the point that [b]OP is too immature[/b] to accept step-motherhood and possibly marriage itself. When step-moms put power struggles with ex-wives over bonding with step-kids, they have got to step back and ask themselves WHY?

OP -- and others -- seem beyond questioning motives of petty jealousy with DH's past (remember OP you are married to DH, not ex) and focusing on the future benefits of nurturing positive relationships. Sometimes that takes time. Others, it takes money. Always, it takes calm.[/quote]

Interesting.  I'm OP and never once have I revealed whether I'm a parent, bio or step, or not.  I posed a question that came to my own mind as I read other threads.  Bickering often starts when people start projecting their own personal anecdotes and color their responses as a result.[/quote]

OP, when you come to DCUM, you risk getting unfavorable attention, especially from people who have motives/issues of their own. You've complained about this throughout this thread, yet you keep coming back to it and responding to every unfavorable poster, even those who mistake you for the OP of the other thread. Why?[/quote]

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