Reply to Is the redhead kid who calls me dad actually mine?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Is the redhead kid who calls me dad actually mine?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The kid is going to learn eventually. You people are in some fantasy land. Many families are messy. Mine sure as hell was. [/quote]

Ah so because your family was screwed up you think everyone's should be.  The kid won't find out unless the dad tests.  I would protect the kid.  No question. [/quote]

So the man is supposed to live with that kind of a cloud over his life to spare the feelings of his child?  You're crazy

[/quote]

What cloud?  You mean the kid?  That's not a cloud, that's a person.  Divorce the wife.  Don't mess with the kid. [/quote]

Agree. Big hugs to you OP. You suspected this all along but confirmation must be so hard on you.
Do the right thing but also work on a transition plan where [b]the real father [/b]can [b]stay[/b] involved. [/quote]

What "real father"?  The OP is the only father this kid has ever known.  He IS the real father, biology be damned.  I mean, if the OP wants to get a divorce, fine, do what you have to do, but priority number one should be protecting this poor kid.  If the boy gets any sense at all that OP doesn't think he's the "real father," he'll be heartbroken.

And "stay" involved?  The biological father has never been involved in this kid's life.  [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics