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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]many women learn not to be confrontational or direct--it sometimes has bad consequences, but most of the time we think we're not hurting feelings by being indirect; its too uncomfortable or difficult to let someone down.

It was empowering to me to figure out, in my late 20s/early 30s that it was perfectly OK and in fact good to be direct and that it was in fact more courteous to say "thanks, I had a good time but I am not interested in pursuing this further/don't think we're a match/etc." Most of the time, the men were appreciative that they didn't waste further effort/time. However, there were a few who refused to listen or wouldn't take no for an answer and demanded to know why and started do to the cross examination thing. I did not stand for that, but I could see how some women just prefer to avoid any discomfort altogether. [/quote]

I've had not a single man take "no" well after only a few dates. Most tell me off ("you won't find better, etc) which speaks volumes to their character. [/quote]

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