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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Once OP cooled off he used the appropriate pronouns. [/quote] What is appropriate? He or She?[/quote] She. OP was a male dating a transgendered woman. He is heterosexual and was under the impression that she was a biological female due to her appearance and how she represented herself. It is best to refer to her as the gender she identifies with but in situations like this one the confusion with pronouns becomes (obviously) much more pronounced as the OP, essentially, had a problem with the fact that 'she' was not EXACTLY a 'she.' Not sure how to have these discussions with being respectful to everyone's feelings because OP's feelings revolve around her having been a 'him' but calling her a him is disrespectful to how she identifies. It is a conundrum. [/quote]
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