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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has anyone here seen the statistics on affairs? It's not exactly anti-social behavior.

I'm not the OP, but I'm one of the OW posters who was called a sociopath. I'm definitely not a sociopath, but I don't feel like I need to decide to feel shame because people on a message board said I should. I think adults are capable of making these decisions for themselves. My AP talks about an open agreement between he and his wife. That's between them. I'm not sure that I believe him, but he's a grown man and can decide for himself. [/quote]

Not the OP, but agreed. I have been the OW and I've been with a man who cheated on me with another W.  I can't hold her responsible for his actions, nor am I responsible for anyone but myself.

[b]Most of the self-righteous, judgemental women on here are just envious.[/b][/quote]

[b]Of?... being in your 40's, never been married and basically being a f*k buddy? No thanks.[/quote][/b]

Not OP here, but I can think of many things someone might envy in this person's life. For one, having the complete freedom to do what she wants too do, when she wants to do it. There are a lot of replies that talk about how she is "missing" something by not being married.  Being single has the advantage of not having to compromise.  Married people, come on and admit it. Don't you sometimes look at your spouse and think "I wish I'd never laid eyes on you".  Being single means she can spend her money any way she wants to, save or not, splurge or not. I think the vehemence of the responses indicate some hidden aggression.[/quote]

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