Reply to "Perfect on paper husband," just not in love with him

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to ""Perfect on paper husband," just not in love with him"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]OP - you keep saying therapy won't work, it didn't work before because the therapist kept asking you "why do you feel that way.." blah blah.

seems to me you just want a therapist to tell you that it's ok to divorce him, your happiness is important too, etc...  you want someone to validate that it's ok to leave him over this issue.

What you don't want to hear is that there is no such thing as a perfect husband, kids, marriage, etc...  to get your head out of your ass, put your big girl panties on, and accept that life is not perfect.

Also, you said that you had an ex BF whom you did have chemistry with, and was a take-charge, rough in bed kind of guy, but also was angry at the world.   You want that rough part, but not the anger.   You see, it's hard, if not impossible, to find that exact combo you want.    It's like trying to find the perfect house when you're house hunting.  It's impossible to find everything you want. You get the best of what you can and work with what you have.

Maybe try to find a sex therapist to help you figure out ways you can approach your DH.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics