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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, haven't been on this thread since yesterday.  I am the one whose dad died when I was 10 and mom scraped by. I must say, most of you folks on DCUM are distorted.  It is clear to me that most of the PPs have never had to really scrape by.  Have any of you ever had to live on welfare or on nothing?  Do you know how to not only live without cable, but also without a car or wondering if you were going to pay for food or gas first?  It changes you.  And don't think this doesn't happen in the US. It has been ubiquitous since 2008, just not in NW DC, or MOCo or Fairfax, or at least not in your community.  If you lost a $20 bill, would that break your budget for the month?

Get off your horses. [b]The OP has a problem. [/b] The OPs husband has a problem, and all she sees is the $$ bleeding out the door.  I am sure it brings a lot of feelings of her childhood.  If you choose to eat nothing but beans to make sure there is money in the bank, it has to be irritating to hear DH went out and dropped $100 on lunch at a restaurant.  All OP is asking for is advice on how to get DH to spend reasonably, say $15 for lunch instead.[/quote]
The only problem OP has is that she married someone very different from her, and is now angry that she can't force him to become exactly like her. Aren't there enough born-poor Asians out there she could have married? Why go out look for problems?  [/quote]

You've given yourself away.  I has a feeling most of OP's haters in this thread were [b]asian males angry about asian females dating white[/b].[/quote]

No, there's enough non-Asian poonanie for Asian males out there that they don't care about that anymore.  At least, that's what I see.  Lots and lots of Asian dudes dating out of their race now.  Why hate?  Participate!  [/quote]

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