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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most of the "we have rules and morals" parents just don't know their daughters are giving BJ's to boys at parties and church mixers.  Keep your head in the sand, Parents, because the shock of what your child is doing outside of your home will kill you.  [/quote]

Actually, I do know that is going on. My child told me and we avoid those "parties" where parents have no rules, let kids "party" in the basement without any supervision. It is crazy to me that girls are giving out blowjobs so easily.

[b]The other kids have social lives, go to movies, have friends over and don't need the drugs, alcohol and sex to have fun.

Your head is in the sand if you thing "all kids are doing it"[/b]. [/quote]

Exactly. Thank you. My 17 year old is an exceptional student and got into college of her choice. She does not date but have tons of friends who are boys - and has an active social life. I also know that some of the kids are having sex, making out with multiple partners, taking drugs and drinking...she shares all the gory details with me. She has seen kids crash and burn when these sexual relationships do not work. She chooses to have a lot of fun and new experiences - but always keeping herself safe (which actually the OP's daughter did) - and making sure that her life goals are not derailed because she is in a relationship.

Another thing is that we are from a different culture. Our family ties are very strong and we are not the kind of people who can be ok after failed and/or casual relationships. We are not really that hardened emotionally.  So, she will be hesitant getting into a sexual relationship not because premarital sex is taboo and virginity is prized in the home country, but mainly because she can not be emotionally detached enough to have casual sex, or shrug it off if a relationship does not work out.

If my DD was having safe sex, I would be more worried about her emotional state, maturity  and her decision making abilities for the future - and not as much about having sex per se.[/quote]

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