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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] How are parents supposed to know how others home lives are (or are not)? Or if the next guys' lives are truly any more difficult, or just perceived that way, or if you simply can't handle what life you chose for yourself? What if there are no exigent circumstances? Or if the lazy parent just walks around thinking the world somehow owes them? That is the impression I am given by some. What if the more generous parents have truly exigent circumstances, and the other parent/s are really just users, who take advantage at every turn? Boy, that must get tiresome and alienate many, many people in a short time. People do get tired of things being one way. Does that not matter to the lazy parents? Is there no sense of dignity and responsibility that says you should take care of your own child's needs? Socializing your child is not a basic part of parenting? The laziness is puzzling. It is statistically impossible that more families have exigent circumstances than not, yet there are so many parents not willing to do their part, too often, it seems. Tiresome! Your children really do miss out. How can you not realize this? [/quote] I enjoy giving when I can. If there is no way to know if someone is truly in need or just lazy, I'd rather err on the side of assuming they are in need and give them a break. That's about me and how I choose to live my life more than it is about the other person. You think what you want, PP. If feeling like you are being taken advantage of is such a terrible thing then by all means avoid it, and keep seeing it wherever you look. I don't see it.[/quote]
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