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well, the brother who threw the kid outdoors is a prime example of a downright mooch. He has Jesus so no need to worry about a daughter.
One possibility is that they will change their mind and accept her and welcome the grandchild
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That would be the worst possible outcome!
Look what he did to his daughter. Turned out great, right?
No, being raised jointly by her mother and OP's family, or being adopted, are both solid and far better options. OP may have difficult years ahead of her, but I am sure her niece and child are in good hands. Bless you, OP![/quote]
Are you saying it would be terrible if she reconciled with her parents and they accepted the situation?[/quote]

Correct.
There is 0 chance they will "accept" the situation, that is, provide a guilt-free, loving, non-extremist environment for the mother and baby.
I know the type, believe me. 
Do you want them to raise the baby like they did their daughter, in such a controlling environment that he or she will want to break free?

Just because they are her biological parents, it does not mean they are the best people to help her. Of course, that shifts the burden to others like OP. Thank goodness she is willing to take up the slack. Even if the baby is adopted, the young mother needs a supportive environment which she will never find at her parents. 
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