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[quote=Anonymous]Op just read everything. I feel so sad for you. You need a plan. Honestly I think you should leave him. My mom went thru this. Stayed. Now at 60 is broken, suffers from anxiety, depression, and highly medicated. Anything apart from staying would've been better. My father has shaped and left the most negative impact on my brother. Remember a child's biggest role model is the same sex parent.  Her reasons to stay were, SAHM, no family support, and three children. She buried her head, focused on the positive. Eventually separate rooms. My mother was a light, beautiful (seriously gorgeous!), so witty ( I envied her quick wit and sense of humour). She would've struggled financially.....maybe, but I think she was so scalable younger, she would've made it work.

Eventually holding the pain in, (his ways never stopped), her nerves crumbled, and she's hardly t the woman I recall her to be. There's more to life than a nice house. It's called a peace of mind. Priceless. Having a sense if peace in your home will model to your children what is acceptable and normal and they are worthy. Do not settle. Kick him out and make him Fight for this family. If he doesn't, please move on. He sounds awful, manipulative, and to throw the kids out -disgusting! He's no husband, and worse a fucked up father.

In my own marriage (I'm a mom if a tot and baby) we have fights, (no cheating), but neither of us could or would consider bring away from out kids. We would fight for them no matter what. We wouldn't walk out on them! I hope you don't waste your life on him. Please wake up. He's crazy.[/quote]

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