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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the one who wrote about a month ago about that my DH suddenly told me he was unhappy and wanted to go to counseling.

Now after two sessions and many questions, he admits that he has been having lunch with an old coworker - a single pretty woman.  I do not think this is appropriate.  He says they are just friends and have lunch about 1 - 2 times per month.  Also, about two years ago, she visited our house with her dogs, which I thought was odd.  It was as if she wanted to meet me and our children and "check out" our house and family.  Then last fall, she texted him and said she was in our town (she lives an hour away) and asked him to meet for coffee at 9 p.m.  I said to my dH - are you going on a date??? in a sort of joking manner.  It was odd and I was a little bit upset.  I would never ever invite a married family man out for coffee on a weeknight at 9 p.m. and not include the wife.  DH says at their last lunch, they confided in each other that he is having marital problems and she and her boyfriend are having problems.  I told him this was not appropriate at all and he should not be having lunch with her or confiding in her.  Also, he kept these lunches a secret from me.

Are they just friends? It this appropriate?(he is never away on weekends or overnight.)[/quote]

Absolutely not OP.  Not appropriate at all.  If nothing is actually going on right now, you can bet that it is being considered.  Been there, done that more than once, and do not ever want to be in a relationship where that is happening again.  Also, know a woman, whose husband was "friends" with a coworker who befriended the wife, and the three of them would do everything together, and now that girl is married to her husband, living in her house, with things that the two of them had worked for all those years before.  Just friends????  No, I don't think so.  He should take you to lunch.  That is bull.  [/quote]

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