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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Nope; I mean what I wrote as it pertains to interracial marriages/unions. Not sure why that's so hard to comprehend. [/quote]

OP, people keep asking you because your responses don't make sense. I still don't understand what "discord" you have witnessed, nor what "watering down of culture."[/quote]

The part you're missing is that I don't HAVE to justify my opinion. My opinion is just that and it won't change. It's also almost certain you won't agree with any reason I give, so why would I bother?

How about you allow me to just have my opinion? I don't voice it to others (unless asked) and you'd never know I disapprove, so that is enough. You can't force everyone to agree with your life choices; you can only ask that they don't attack/insult you because of them.

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You're entitled to your opinion, but you must at least admit that it's irrational. You say it's not "looks" that determine why you're against "interracial" marriage, but "culture." Then you say it's not inter-cultural marriage you're opposed to. So then what is it?

You can have your beliefs, but you must admit you're incapable of actually supporting and backing up why you hold those beliefs. [/quote]

I can support them. Just because my reasons don't rise to the level of what you find rational does not mean I don't have my reasons.

Some of them are:

-it creates discord
- it results in loss of culture identity (Ex: black/white child: will not have the same cultural appreciation for their heritage. Same with other races Chinese/white, etc).
-children sometimes have identity crisis issues (accepted by some, not by others, never knowing where they fit in, being racially militant to overcompensate for their insecurities, etc)
-it creates discord *beyond* the parent/child relationship. In-law relationships (which can be tough anyway) are difficult; relating to and/or finding common ground can be an issue, etc.

I have other reasons; these are just a few. Again, you don't have to accept them (or understand them). [/quote]

Chicken and egg arguments.  None of these "reasons" are endemic to biracial relationships themselves, but are brought on by the racist attitudes of people like you who refuse to accept them.[/quote]

Wrong. But like I said, if your ears are plugged and your mind isn't open you aren't going to process any of this anyway. And that's okay. Not seeing how racism has anything to do with a biracial child having a disconnect with their heritage. Perhaps you can explain? [/quote]

Your heritage is your heritage.  What you get from your parents.  A biracial child has a heritage just as any child has a heritage.  How can a child be "disconnected" from their heritage?  Your terms are overly simplistic and formulaic, as if you are watching an Afterschool Special.[/quote]

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