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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem with a sperm donor is you're on the hook for raising the kid on one income.

It's better to get pregnant from a hot one night stand or from a short term relationship with a guy with some money so you can at least get child support.

Even if you have to "settle" for a few encounters or a short-term relationship, it is WAY better than permanently and continuously settling in a messy, resentful marriage.[/quote]

It’s no wonder there are so many failed marriages/relationships here with this “find penis with a garnish-able wage and fertilize yourself by any means necessary” family planning mentality. [/quote]

It wouldn't be a failed relationship from the perspective of the pregnant woman.[/quote]

The child is all that matters and this is not responsible family planning. [/quote]

A divorce and/or years of growing up in a loveless house is far worse "family planning".  Sperm bank is pricey as hell.  Short-term relationship with a guy and 18 years of child support is by far the best of the available options for a mid-thirties single woman who wants kids.  Once she has the kid, she will have time to find a life partner instead of racing the clock.[/quote]

Who said anything about loveless? Sexual attraction is NOT love.[/quote]

If a person is not attracted to their partner they will eventually grow to resent them, leading to a loveless marriage, toxic home and substandard environment for kids.

Focus on your career first, then baby, then husband (if necessary). In that order.[/quote]

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