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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - do you know how rare DCUM unanimity is? Crazy rare.  Sad for all that you cannot see it, you are too defensive and certain you are right.

You are a controlling person that will lose their child because you are in fact[b] crazy controlling and the effect of every action you are taking with your daughter will (1) not help her, and (2) drive her away from you.
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We all feel for your child.  No one thinks she is perfect, but everyone feels for how hard it must have been to grow up with your[b] lack of respect for any choice she has ever wanted to make.[/b][/quote]

I want to make it clear for rude commenters who haven't heard this before: If you don't have a child with a personality disorder, do NOT COMMENT AND INSULT ME ON THIS THREAD.

Do you know how hard it is to raise a child with an obvious personality disorder? Of course DH and I don't respect any of the choices that she's made. They've all led her to this situation of being underemployed and dependent on me for financial support, which DH and I EXPLICITLY stated at the beginning of college that we do NOT believe in for adult children.

Obviously a STEM graduate from Stanford is more employable than an English graduate from Oberlin. It was only inevitable that DD would end up in this situation.

Only people with borderline adult children can understand this. No, we do not have to respect an adult child's delusions.  [/quote]

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