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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love all the people in this thread acting like what they are doing is radical, and then describing a spouse who has already quiet quit. My guess is that a lot of these posters gave up on being fun and attractive, probably earned less, took less good care of themselves, and then the husbands quiet quit. And they don't see the irony. Might as well just get divorced.[/quote] Well there's always 2 sides to this. I don't assume the side you mention is what everyone on the thread is describing. But, there's always 2 sides to this.[/quote] Well, DH quiet quit trying to be attractive or putting any effort into our relationship. He has mostly quiet quit parenting our SN kid. He makes a lot of money. I don’t as a result of stepping way back to take care of everything except making money. But I absolutely take care of myself and still look really good. I haven’t lost my sense of play or adventure, but I don’t get to exercise it with my spouse.[/quote] Does that mean you are cheating? There is something about the stress of having to make a lot of money that takes a toll on every provider. Eventually it becomes heavy and you do lose your desire for life because everything is expected and nothing is appreciated. If you are giving the best of yourself to someone else then consider leaving him and carrying the burden of food, housing, saving for retirement and college etc without disrespecting the man doing his best to provide a life for you out of love. He might suck at showing it the way you desire, but I bet he wants to be the man you desire and deserve instead of the man you take advantage of and resent. If you aren’t cheating, please forgive the rant.[/quote]
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