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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, many couple keep their finances separate. From the start. Harder if you haven't been doing that from the beginning. He would feel the expense. Not the two of you so much. Op, you might consider a post-nuptial agreement, do it legally. Have it drawn-up. You have that done, and without drama[/quote] This is the way to go, OP. If your husband wants to pay for his sister, let him. From now on you keep your finances separate. First you both have to pay your mortgage and bills and for paper towels. Whatever is left over he can contribute to his sister. If you don’t feel like there’s anything left in his bucket after he pays all her rehab expenses to the point that you’re not even enjoying life with him, ie, vacations, date nights, etc, well then you have a decision to make. And make him aware that if this happens long term, you’ll find a more fulfilling life elsewhere. [/quote] Yes. This is a reasonable approach.[/quote]
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