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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Idiots will say idiotic things. I just don't react when that happens.

OP, you are right to feel offended.  But, refusing to host for this reason is unnecessarily confrontational.  I just do not give weight to any nonsense that others speak.  Elderly tend to lose their filter and will say such things. This is age-related cognitive decline. [/quote]

+1000000

My kids insulted my Thanksgiving dinner. Should I skip Christmas Eve dinner?

Really your in-laws are like young kids. Once you understand they are simply large children it gets easier. [/quote]

Actually it sounds like you just have a problem that runs through all generations of your family.  You think raising your kids to be ungrateful little shits is normal because you were raised by ungrateful big shits.  Judging by your post this shitty behavior didn’t skip a generation.[/quote]

NP. You sound intolerable. Do you have kids?  Did your teenager ever say something ungrateful or stupid?  When they did, curious what you did. Kick them out if the house?  Call them little shits? How’s that working for you?  [/quote]

It’s working great.  My kids would NEVER insult the food prepared for them by someone else.

Your kids sound intolerable, and that sounds like it’s your fault.[/quote]

There is no way you have kids of speaking age. There's a reason the saying "From the mouth of babes" exists. Kids have no filter they say honest shit all the time. You're a clown.[/quote]
Some of us taught our children manners. Are you even a parent? [/quote]

You aren't a parent.[/quote]
Is this non-answer an answer? Either you aren't even a parent, or you chose not to parent your children properly and teach manners. I'm going with random reddit loser bro who's bored. [/quote]

I'll go with dementia addled Boomer for you who claims her kids never ever acted up ever. Save it for your daughter in law, nobody cares about your rose tinted glasses view you have now of your "perfect" children you raised 40 years ago.[/quote]

I’m the PP who agreed with the person you’re trying, and failing, to lambast. A DIL. Nowhere near Boomer age. Multiple school aged kids.

Your weird level of rage and repeated lashing out about this is concerning. You should speak to a professional.[/quote]

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