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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think someone who doesn’t want a birthday dinner and spending time with their partner over a meal and instead just wants to be bought stuff is just a selfish greedy person. [/quote]

Yes, we know you think that. You don't need to repeat yourself. Some of us think partners like you are lazy. Time can be spent together over a dinner any old day.[/quote]

I think OP’s BF is the one who is lazy and only does what suits him. He took her to dinner because HE would also benefit from eating food. He can’t see the benefit in anc didn’t want to put an effort in grabbing a $15 bouquet on his way to dinner. Because it doesn’t benefit him directly and immediately. He doesn’t want to show his affection, or doesn’t care about what was important for OP (and he was well aware of) 
The fact of him doing it before and stopping doing it DOES indeed indicate a loss of affection on his end

I would move on [/quote]

I'd be annoyed if someone got me a $15 bouquet of crappy flowers from Safeway. Are there people who would really like that? Either get me the flowers you know I like or don't get me anything. Don't waste money on some stupid gesture because someone told you that's what you should do on Valentine's Day. [/quote]

DH gets me giant flowers. It is better than getting no flowers. He used to send me flowers to work and I think he used pro flowers or some other online site and they weren’t the type of bouquet anyone was impressed by. It is what it is.

He earns a high income and we do go on large expensive trips. We will go on a 20k vacation but I doubt he has ever spent $100 on flowers for me.[/quote]

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