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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ugh. It's so pathetic to see a woman give up her promotion because some insecure man child tells her to. I thought society had advanced further than that. [/quote]

Ugh. It’s so pathetic to see a woman act as if their partners opinion and timeline isn’t worthy. Op can go but her bf will move on and she will be the sad 30 something trying to find a husband before her biological clock goes out. [/quote]
If your gf told you not to take a promotion you'd seriously do it? I highly doubt it. You'd tell her to kick rocks. Your misogyny just won't let you support women the same way.

He's not a fiance. He's not a husband. He's a bf. I think I'd struggle to call someone a "partner" who acts like a child and gives ultimatums like this.  [/quote]

I’m a woman. If my bf and I had talked about future and were close to moving in together and engagement, I would be blindsided and upset he would consider leaving me for two years for $20k more. I would seriously worry he isn’t that serious about me and end the relationship. I wouldn’t leave in that situation. Money can always be earned but your person can’t be replaced easily and time doesn’t wait. There are many 30+ women still waiting on that fairytale life. A 33yo man making at least $300k that wants marriage and kids will have a lot of options. Op probably won’t be as lucky. [/quote]

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