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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]SESES Family Poster -

For 16:58, respectfully, I don't think I can answer the questions about reasonable environment taxpayers should provide. We're living the process and it's harrowing and daunting. I would start from the point of what needs to these kids have and what services match the needs. Then it becomes a demand/supply question and then funding.

Also, we're at a point where we're continuing to understand our little one, learning about experiences from other families, and outcomes achieved. So I don't have a crystal ball about what model works, let alone if that model or models works for all.

Here are responses to your other questions:

As we’ve heard from dozens of seasoned educators on this forum, the issue of classroom violence is skyrocketing. What do you feel is going on?
I can only comment on our experience, which I don't think is representative of the population. I provided an example of what happens with our LO in the original post. IMO, it's a mismatch between needs and curriculum/instruction. Then there is escalation when LO isn't able to maintain the same as gen ed peers. Also, we've had a hell of a time with medication. We've dealt with multiple psychiatrists who all take a try and see approach. In IMO, we saw an increase of behavioral issues as we tried new medications and dosages. It was a nightmare.

What has helped your child the most? Any particular individual, or method? Is your son’s father in the home? How does he respond to the violence? How do you respond?
For us, letting our LO recharge outside of school was very helpful. Providing lots of options for preferred activities and socialization helped most. Also, I'm LOs father. Further, I think your questions about responding to violence miss the point. Once there's escalation to the point of violence, there's very little that can be done in the moment. Understanding the cues and deescalation is essential. Keeping calm and showing empathy is essential.

Do you believe the other children in the classroom feel safe when they come to school? How should they be protected from assault?
I think these questions are for staff and specialists that have observed incidents and families of gen ed kids. What I can say is that my LO and other kids at school are friendly toward each other. LO is looking to have positive relationships and feels depressed after a dysregulated episode. The more is happens, the bigger the hole is to get out.

Again, I'm hoping that sharing our story helps to provide more context. [/quote]

Agree with this poster.  When our DC was 6 and was showing similar signs we BEGGED to be seen. Everyone was brushing us off.  A totally useless psychiatrist ata reputable pediatrician's office just basically diagnosed DC with ODD and called it a day.  It was only after pushing and pushing did we get to someone who could really help.  We also have rsources, not everyone does.[/quote]
Who really helped? What did they do?[/quote]

Meds + therapy + supports at school (with an advocate at our IEP meetings).[/quote]
What supports? [/quote]

A school
With a guidance counselor and principal
Who get special education, a Homeroom teacher who gets SEL and is supported by leadership, a great paraedicator. People who
Are willing to look out for my kid when other kids purposely try to rile them up to get a reaction. [/quote]

Sounds expensive. It would be much easier to just expel them.[/quote]

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