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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Didn’t read this whole thread, but the first woman in the article sounds like she consented  (who takes a bath in a garden?) and she’s telling the gross details for shock value snd sympathy.  Why would she continue to babysit if he was abusing her?  Her story makes zero GD sense.[/quote]

I think it all sounds mostly-consensual.  But also awful, despicable, and involving his child is over the line.[/quote]

Sure I mean he’s gross, but “accusations” of being a “predator” seem to be what’s really over the line.  Honestly I’m sick of grown women being infantilized like this.  If your gross employer asks you to take a bath with him it’s time to get the hell out of there.

(Plus he sucks as a writer.  Never understood his appeal.)[/quote]

Women who are being harassed at work are not infants. That's ridiculous. There's a power dynamic between employer and employee.

I was in my 30s as a working highly educated professional woman. A man I was working on a contract with met me for coffee in public to work. He then started insisting I go to his house and wait for him to take a shower. I said no. Obviously I didn't get any more work with him.

Now I realize how wrong it was that I dealt with so much, put up with so much, walked away unscathed numerous times. Sometimes friends of mine who were lawyers told me to quit a job before it got to the point I would have a case, because they cared about me. [/quote]

Do those women harassed at work then send gushing texts to their harasser about how magical the harassment was?
This woman comes across as a fickle, fragile fool and while NG is 100% a foul man, she wasn't a child and shouldn't be treated like one. Her enthusiastic consent somehow didn't count because she was broken on the inside.
The entire lifestyle is sick and tailor made for disasters like this. Shameful[/quote]

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